It’s hard to believe, but many women in today’s society are very prudish when it comes to experimenting with their skills in the sex department. In order for sex lives to maintain any level of excitement, change has to occur. Some women are quick to criticize, ridicule, and rip apart, a woman who projects confidence in her sexual skin. Instead of stepping back and finding their inner sexual prowess, many women retract. There are three things that women have expressed strong opinions about for years; strippers, fellatio and hot sex. Female strippers have long been an intimidating force to be reckoned with for women all over the world. Usually their sexy, seductive bodies look good in their costumes, they dance well, and invade the imaginations of men everywhere. It’s nothing to be upset about. On the flip side, women have side bar conversations with their girlfriends and talk about dancing for their men, and these women are not talking about doing ballet, jazz or tap. The moves are stripper moves. So why front the strippers off, when in all actuality you WISH you knew how to make it clap and shake like the strippers your partner enjoys watching?

Ladies, you don’t have to wish, just learn how to do it. Over the last few years, many Erotic Dance classes have surfaced. They include pole dancing, and teach you how to seduce and dance like a stripper. It’s okay to have different sides of yourself. Embrace it. If you truly want to go a few steps further, hire a stripper to show you how to club dance. Trust me, it will be the best lesson your money has purchased in a long time.

Fellatio. Women have had issues with admitting that they do it, that they truly understand the mechanics of it to truly be good at it, or have a hard time enjoying it period. If you fall into one of these categories, deal with it, and figure out how important it may or may not be in your sex life. Most men love fellatio. You know the old saying, “Practice makes perfect.” I’m sure your man would welcome an opportunity to be your test subject. Google “Penis” and read about where the most sensitive glands are located and apply the appropriate pressure. Learn timing and find his G spot (yes, he has one too). Last but not least, make him beg. It’s a game, fellatio. It should never become mundane, predictable or mechanical. Your man will truly appreciate the research, time and wanting that you’ve embraced.

Lastly, “Zane”, in a word. She has written some of the most explicit sexually motivated sex books around and her bestsellers continuously race off the shelves. The sex is hot, heavy, lust filled and explosive. A woman has ample opportunity to create environments that would initiate hot sex, and seduction practices can happen anywhere. Be cautious because people don’t go to jail in Zane’s books, but like Nike said “JUST DO IT”. Rent spicy movies to help turn it up a notch. And most importantly, do unto him as you would want him to do unto you. Maybe by initiating, he will pick up the torch and reciprocate the favor.