I was speaking to a group of women recently, and after the presentation they asked me in life thus far what I would do differently, what changes in life I would make, if any, in essence what regrets do I have.

I have to be very honest with you. I find it interesting when I hear people say God works in mysterious ways. I believe God is not mysterious.

Recently I had an opportunity to spend some time with one of my “good” girlfriends of more than twenty years. A well educated professional woman with a fun spirit and an amazing sense of humor. However, she is one of the world’s greatest procrastinators. A day dreamer that believes there will always be an opportunity to do something later, be it completing a project or following up on a lead that could change her life.

By now we are all familiar with (or should be) the Jena 6. Six young men whose lives have been changed forever because of a fight and history of a tree. This tree an object created by God and misrepresented by man. This object that represented privilege to some, and racism to others. As I watched thousands descend on this small community in Louisiana with a big problem, I heard people reference the tree as a symbol of racism that should be chopped down and removed.

It is amazing what we will fight for, and what we will give away so easily. You’ve heard the stories of carjacked victims who fought off their attacker to keep their car that they worked so hard to get. We arm our homes with the most sophisticated alarm systems to protect our property from would-be criminals who lurk in the night to steal our prized possessions.

Have you heard the term, “If God brought you to it, He’ll get you through it”? I often think about my parents and grandparents who appeared to do much more with their lives with much less.

Do not allow people to hold you back from your greatness to justify their fear. 

   
Often on my radio show I’ve said “be careful of who you share your dreams with.” Some people in your personal circle may not be happy for you as you grow. Be it your personal, professional, spiritual, or financial growth, not everyone will be a cheerleader for your change or success.